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Jag var i en social situation. Jag har, för all del, inte en historik av att vara direkt överkvalificerad för den typen av uppgifter. Men just den här sociala situationen var ett kalas i en trädgård hos några vänner tillsammans med några av deras vänner som jag inte kände och jag upplevde, kanske så här i efterhand helt felaktigt, att jag förväntades småprata. Så jag småpratade med två personer som höll i varsitt ganska nyfött barn. De skojade med varandra om hur livet förändras när man blir förälder. De drog ett par olika exempel, jag minns inte exakt vilka, det var något om att gå upp mitt i natten och något om att det plötsligt är ett stort projekt att gå och köpa mjölk. Jag hade aldrig träffat dem förut. Jag ville bara inte vara den obehagliga killen som står tyst bredvid folk han inte känner. Så jag tänkte ställa en fråga, för folk säger alltid att det är bra att ställa frågor om man vill inleda en konversation. Så jag passade på att fråga om någon av dem hade några bra tips på hur man får bort bajs som har fastnat i håret på underarmarna. Jag gjorde en kort förlorande gest mot min egen underarm när jag sa det. Jag är pedagogisk på det sättet.

Det hade så här i efterhand självklart varit bra om jag till att börja med hade förklarat för dem att jag själv också har barn.

Det hade även varit bra om mina barn hade gått att hitta när jag skulle bevisa deras existens.  Och det hade hjälpt om jag hade befunnit mig i rätt trädgård, så att personerna jag pratade med faktiskt var vänner med mina vänner och inte med mina vänners grannar.

Jag bara säger nu att min personliga åsikt är att radhusträdgårdar borde vara tydligt separerade genom buskage eller staket eller annan anordning. Och jag förstår att det är ordet ”separerade” jag borde ha använt när jag skulle förklara för min fru vad som hade hänt. Jag borde inte ha sagt ”folk måste ha gränser”. För det är tydligen jag som borde ha det.

Men det behöver inte BARA vara såna här saker som är anledningen till att jag inte har speciellt många vänner.

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  1. Gränser är bra att ha…både som person och vad gäller avgränsningar i trädgården…Jag är dock mest imponerad över hur du brukar få bajs på underarmarna…! Och, i så fall, hur du INTE vet hur du får bort det…Hört talas om tvål och vatten…? :)

  2. Jag är onekligen imponerad över att du inte insåg att du inte var inne i dina vänners trädgård. Husen kan ju se identiska ut, men inte trädgårdar och utemöbler. Första gången du var där? Får lite ”Vilse i Pannkakan-vibbar”.

  3. Jag är gärna vän med dig! För du är precis hur underhållande som helst! ???

  4. Du har många vänner här i alla fall. Fast det kanske är svårt att bevisa vår existens också i och för sig :)

  5. @Linsan Eller så har vi bara råkat vandra in på ”grannbloggen” utan att vi riktigt förstod vad som hände. För det här är väl Ernst Brunners blogg va?!

    #bloggstaketsuppropet

  6. Otroligt roligt som alltid när du beskriver situationer! Tips: Babyolja och en bomullspad funkar nog bäst för borttagning av bajs tror jag. PS. Tråkiga människor du verkar träffa. Skulle gärna vara vän med dig

  7. Förresten vill jag tillägga att oljan o bomullen endast testats som bajsborttagning på min son som är två månader.

  8. Helt jävla fantastiskt vilka situationer du lyckas hamna i, big-F! Fredrik for president! :) :) :)
    Jag ställer också upp som en ”vän”, fiktiv eller reell, your choice! …och det känns som en sorts fadersinstinkt från min sida!

  9. Du har aldrig funderat på om du är lite autistisk Fredrik? 😉 Du kanske ska be din fru sätta dig i en löplina? Hursomhelst så hade jag gärna gått på partaj med dig, du hade fått mig att framstå som den normala:-D

  10. Alltså… Nu har ju inte jag nån sån däringa instagram eller twitter eller nåt annat socialt what so ever, så jag vet inte hur jag kommenterar på instagrambilden med ”fudge” men skulle ändå vilja göra det… Så jag gör det helt sonika här istället.

    Detta var vad jag kom att tänka på när jag såg ”fudge”-funderingen:

    http://www.aftonbladet.se/nyheter/article14409831.ab

  11. Jag, och flera med mig vill gärna vara vän med dig. Kanske starta ett kollektiv långt borta från alla ”normala” människor och samla oss inte lika normala på samma ställe? Tror att vi är många som vill det… ?

  12. Har tre barn och har knappt hunnit läsa en bok på 7 år och har nu sträckläst ‘Mormor hälsar och säger förlåt’. Ta mig tusan den bästa bok jag läst! Nu ska jag köpa nästa!

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