Kallt krig. Varmt hjärta.

Jag har en syster. Hon har en son. Min systerson, således. Sonens pappa är således min svåger. Han är från Irland. Vilket inte är så konstigt som det låter eftersom han bor på Irland. Så det är egentligen mer min syster som är från Sverige.

Hur som helst.

Vi rör oss ju nu som bekant mot jul, och min svåger och jag skickar traditionsenligt sms till varandra med bilder (jag vet inte om det fortfarande kallas ”mms” men ni fattar förbannat väl vad jag menar så håll inte på och himla med ögonen satans ungdomar med era frisyrer och er musik) på högljudda leksaker som vi hotar att skicka till varandras barn i julklapp. När min syster och svåger var i Sverige på besök i somras köpte min syster, PRECIS innan de åkte hem, en stor jävla leksaksvattenrutschkana som tre pingviner åkte i om och om igen samtidigt som rutschkanan spelade en sång som jag inte direkt kan beskriva men som jag är övertygad om skulle klassas som tortyrmetod om den användes mot misstänkta terrorister  i karibiska fångläger. Det var som om en Marvel-film där Hydra anställt Dr Bombay för att göra alla småbarnsföräldrar morfinberoende.

Men i alla fall.

Jag ska inte säga att jag är mer stressad än vanligt den här julen. Jag ska inte försöka skylla ifrån mig. Men min svåger skickade den här bilden till mig och skrev: ”Got this for your daughter. Don’t worry, batteries included!”

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Och då var jag TÅLMODIG. Jag vill bara påpeka det. Jag skickade bara något lugnt och fint tillbaka med en smiley eller nåt sånt skit och skrev att jag var upptagen med att hitta en lämplig fraktlösning för ett trumset som skulle kunna vara framme på Irland lagom till jul.

Eller nåt sånt.

Jag drog djupa andetag och räknade till tresiffrigt. För sån är jag. För det är snart jul och familjen är det viktigaste man har i livet och jag vet att min svåger bara skojar för han skulle givetvis aldrig göra något för att göra mig upprörd. Så jag tog det lugnt så lugnt så jävla förbannat lugnt så det var inte klokt.

Och sen skickade han den här bilden och skrev ”What size are your children?”.

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Och då skrev jag: ”I am gonna get your kid a snake. And I am gonna give the snake a really cute and cuddly name and a great backstory about how it is an orphan but it has the chosen mark and the ancient prophecy says that one day a brave boy will save it and they will be best friends and together they will defeat the evil armies of the terrible wizard and save the world. Unless the stupid father of the brave boy tries to give the snake away because then all will be lost. I AM A WRITER I HAVE SOLD VERY MANY BOOKS I CAN MAKE THIS SHIT BELIEVABLE!!!”

Jag tycker inte att det var en orimlig reaktion. Visst, det kanske inte var en helt och hållet rimlig reaktion heller, men jag tycker ändå att vi befinner oss någonstans där emellan. Det var visserligen inte ett jättebra tecken att min syster inte ringde och skällde på mig utan istället ringde min fru för att fråga hur jag ”mår”. Det var det kanske inte. Men det var min svåger som började. Tåla lekar och stå ut med hettan i köket och allt det där, liksom. Don’t mess with the mess if you don’t wan’t the eller vad fan.

Nu har jag hur som helst drömt mardrömmar om talande ormar tre nätter i rad. Jag måste lära mig att inte provocera mig själv. Jag är för bra på det här.

115 kommentarer

  1. Bor han på Irland? Bor vi på Sverige? Bor folk i Gotland? Vad, vadå missa poängen, huh?

  2. Din svåger är en god och fin man som inser hur viktigt det är att växa upp med positiva förebilder och desstom förstår sig på football.

  3. Jag vet precis vilken pingvinleksak det är!! Det finns en (nåja) YouTube-video som visar hur den går runt-runt-ruuuunt, och min tvååring äääälskar att titta på den!
    Vilken schysst syrra du har.

  4. Min son hade 6-årskalas idag. Av sin mormor fick han en megafon!!
    En MEGAFON till en 6-åring!
    Jag måste ha varit ett väldigt elakt barn eftersom min mamma bestraffar mig på det här viset.
    Eller så ska det eventuellt ses som ett kul skämt,men jag vet inte….
    Jag hade skrattat åt pingvinerna.

  5. Du överreagerade INTE! Vi pratar Brady här… The Brady Bunch Brady… Oh hell no!!!

  6. 😀 Kan se för mig hur din svågers skratt fastnar i halsen när dina responser aldrig tar slut! Underbart att du inte stoppar på lagom!

  7. Här skulle jag skriva en kommentar om igenkänningsfaktorn gällande mardrömmar när ens egen hjärna någonstans bestämmer sig för att backfire på en själv. . jag kom av mig.
    För att kunna kommentera så ska man fylla i två ord,här precis ovanför, som en dator har genererat fram för att du ska veta att jag inte är en robot. ( Robotfilter, även kallat robotfälla eller captcha heter det tydligen, efter en googling )

    Nåväl, orden jag ska fylla i är ”Anger” ”Cinema” .. Så nu har jag istället för en kommentar, som skuullllleee handla om hjärnans mysterium , istället sjuka bilder på en biosal fylld med människor som är där för att bli arga. De har löst biljett Fredrik!
    De sitter där alldeles förberedda för att vara arga, även om de inte riktigt vet ännu på vad. De kastar popcorn mot ridån.

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